SOVEREIGN HOUSE BDSM CHECKLIST

The more information a Top knows about their bottom, the safer and more exciting their playtime can be. Remember... communication is the key to all relationships, BDSM and vanilla alike!

Below is a list of BDSM activities... please put 2 answers next to each item. Don’t be overwhelmed by this list. Take your time and answer as honestly and as best you can. Your answers will change over and over as you gain more experience in the scene. You should fill out this form every so often to let your Top know about new things you are interested/not interested in!

The first answer should be, if you’ve ever tried that activity before

• Yes = I have participated in this activity before
• No = I have not participated in this activity before

The second answer should be your interest in engaging in that activity on a scale of 0 – 5, NO,?, +, ! or a combination.

• 0 = I have no interest/don’t like this, but would do it to please you.
• 1 = Not very interesting/don’t really enjoy this too much.
• 2 = This is OK,
• 3 = This is nice/fun/interesting
• 4 = I really enjoy/think I’ll enjoy this activity
• 5 = I LOVE THIS/CAN’T WAIT TO TRY THIS
• NO = Hard limit.  I will not participate in this activity at all, at this time.
• ? = Unfamiliar with this activity.
• + = I’m scared of this but would possibly like to explore it.
• ! = I’m embarrassed to admit I like this.

Examples:

Flogging: Yes/5 Have done it before/LOVE IT!)

Cutting: No/+ (Have never tried/scared of this but might like to try it)

Golden Shower: No/5! (Have never done it/really exciting/embarrassed to admit it)

Fluffernutting: No/? (Have never done it/what the heck is it????)

Tickling: Yes/5+! (Have done this before/love it/scared of it/embarrassed I like it)

Also please feel free to write any explanations or more information after your answers.

Examples:

Flogging: Yes/5  - I especially love to be flogged on my back!!!

Tickling: Yes/5+! - My feet are my most ticklish place but I didn’t tell you that! <s>

Did we forget anything? Something you really LIKE? Something you really DON’T LIKE? Please add it to the bottom of the list!

Important Questions:

Physical Concerns - Do you have any medical conditions, chronic or otherwise, that the Top should know about? (Epilepsy, weak shoulders, skin Allergy to latex, etc.) Are you on any prescription medications? Etc.

Mental Concerns - Do you have any phobias or mental conditions that the Top should know about? (Fear of heights, Claustrophobia, MPD, etc.)

Limits - Are there any specific scene-related things you will not do?

Fetishes - Are there any specific scene-related things that you really like?

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This checklist is public domain and may be copied & used by anyone. Many thanks to all who have contributed, as this list is a "best of" of many different lists and our own ideas combined.