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Hypnosis in the Scene
by Jonathon Vale
Introduction
When you hear the word hypnosis, you may picture the mysterious
hypnotist figure popularized in movies, comic books and television.
This ominous, goateed man waves a pocket watch back and forth,
guiding his subject into a semi-sleep, zombie-like state. Once
hypnotized, the subject is compelled to obey, no matter how
strange or immoral the request. Muttering "Yes, master,"
the subject does the hypnotist's evil bidding.
This popular representation bears little resemblance to actual
hypnotism, of course. In fact, modern understanding of hypnosis
contradicts this conception on several key points. Subjects in a
hypnotic trance are not slaves to their "masters" --
they have absolute free will. And they're not really in a
semi-sleep state -- they're actually hyper attentive.
What is Hypnosis?
People have been pondering and arguing over hypnosis for more
than 200 years, but science has yet to fully explain how it
actually happens. We see what a person does under hypnosis,
but it isn't clear why he or she does it. This puzzle is really
a small piece in a much bigger puzzle: how the human mind works.
It's unlikely that scientists will arrive at a definitive
explanation of the mind in the foreseeable future, so it's
a good bet hypnosis will remain something of a mystery as
well. But psychiatrists do understand the general characteristics
of hypnosis, and they have some model of how it works. It is a
trance state characterized by extreme suggestibility, relaxation
and heightened imagination. It's not really like sleep, because
the subject is alert the whole time. It is most often compared
to daydreaming, or the feeling of "losing yourself"
in a book or movie. You are fully conscious, but you tune out
most of the stimuli around you. You focus intently on the
subject at hand, to the near exclusion of any other thought.
Everyday Self-hypnosis
In the everyday trance of a daydream or movie, an imaginary
world seems somewhat real to you, in the sense that it fully
engages your emotions. Imaginary events can cause real fear,
sadness or happiness, and you may even jolt in your seat if
you are surprised by something (a monster leaping from the
shadows, for example). Some researchers categorize all such
trances as forms of self-hypnosis. Milton Erickson, the
premier hypnotism expert of the 20th century, contended
that people hypnotize themselves on a daily basis. But
most psychiatrists focus on the trance state brought on
by intentional relaxation and focusing exercises. This
deep hypnosis is often compared to the relaxed mental
state between wakefulness and sleep.
Conventional hypnosis
In conventional hypnosis, you approach the suggestions of the
hypnotist, or your own ideas, as if they were reality. If the
hypnotist suggests that your tongue has swollen up to twice
its size, you'll feel a sensation in your mouth and you may
have trouble talking. If the hypnotist suggests that you are
drinking a chocolate milkshake, you'll taste the milkshake
and feel it cooling your mouth and throat. If the hypnotist
suggests that you are afraid, you may feel panicky or start
to sweat. But the entire time, you are aware that it's all
imaginary. Essentially, you're "playing pretend"
on an intense level, as kids do.
In this special mental state, people feel uninhibited and
relaxed. Presumably, this is because they tune out the
worries and doubts that normally keep their actions in
check. You might experience the same feeling while watching
a movie: As you get engrossed in the plot, worries about
your job, family, etc. fade away, until all you're thinking
about is what's up on the screen.
In this state, you are also highly suggestible. That is, when
the hypnotist tells you do something, you'll probably embrace
the idea completely. This is what makes stage hypnotist shows
so entertaining. Normally reserved, sensible adults are suddenly
walking around the stage clucking like chickens or singing at
the top of their lungs. Fear of embarrassment seems to fly
out the window. The subject's sense of safety and morality
remain entrenched throughout the experience, however. A
hypnotist can't get you to do anything you don't want to
do.
Using Hypnosis in the scene
Ok, so now I know a little about hypnosis and I know that later
on I’ll learn how to hypnotize a person (also known as putting
them into trance) but what exactly am I going to use this stuff
for in the scene?
The uses and ideas are limitless! Hypnosis is another toy that
you can put into your toy bag to pull out and use as you see
fit. Some prime examples of its use in-scene are:
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Bondage-less bondage
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Mind fucks (fire / ice confusion comes to mind)
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Increased pain tolerance (be careful with this one)
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Sexual simulations (you’ll have an orgasm every time
I say the word Borris!)
Those are just a few of the things you can do in an actual
scene/dungeon environment. I’ve used it in slave training
for things such as position training reinforcement, working
through personal life issues and, as Stacy will discover in
the next few weeks, time keeping!
Setting the scene
Hypnosis is ideally suited for one-on-one use in a quiet setting.
The techniques used involve relaxation which is not necessarily
what you want the subject to experience (i.e. hypnosis on the
rack!) However, this can be negated by getting the subject to
relax their muscles and their mind. Noisy environments can be
used to your advantage by taking the sounds surrounding you
and using them as a cadence to your technique. In a large
dungeon there’s usually some flogging or spanking going on.
The use those rhythms to your advantage. Music! Nothing
trances someone out better than music, the same kind generally
used in the scene. Finally, light is your enemy when trying to
get someone under but blindfolds limit your ability to watch
for some of the signs that a person is in trance (more on that
later). Try to keep light off the subject’s face.
Be prepared!
That motto doesn’t just apply to Boy Scouts. Successfully
getting someone into trance is just as dependent upon their
preconceived notion that you can get them into trace as it
is upon how you get them there. All it takes is to fail once
miserably for their confidence in your abilities to be
shattered. The only thing I can tell you is to practice
your scripts.
Hypnosis/Trance vs. Subby/Head Space
The two are very closely related. Bottoms tend to experience
trance-like states when they enter into head-space. This is
good. What you’re trying to do with hypnosis is to get them
into that place using your words rather than tools and touch.
This is why hypnosis is so effective in the scene. You can
wait until the bottom enters head-space and THEN do the
hypnosis techniques. This one-two punch is usually irresistible
and eliminates many of the problems described above.
You're Getting Sleepy
Hypnotists' methods vary, but they all depend on a few basic
prerequisites:
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The subject must want to be hypnotized.
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The subject must believe he or she can be hypnotized.
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The subject must eventually feel comfortable and relaxed.
If these criteria are met, the hypnotist can guide the subject
into a hypnotic trance using a variety of methods. The most
common hypnotic techniques are:
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Fixed-gaze induction or eye fixation: This is the
method you often see in movies, when the hypnotist
waves a pocket watch in front of the subject. The
basic idea is to get the subject to focus on an
object so intently that he or she tunes out any
other stimuli. As the subject focuses, the hypnotist
talks to him or her in a low tone, lulling the subject
into relaxation. This method was very popular in the
early days of hypnotism, but it isn't used much today
because it doesn't work on a large proportion of the
population.
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Rapid - The idea of this method is to overload the mind
with sudden, firm commands. If the commands are forceful,
and the hypnotist is convincing enough, the subject will
surrender his or her conscious control over the situation.
This method works well for a stage hypnotist because the
novel circumstance of being up in front of an audience
puts subjects on edge, making them more susceptible to
the hypnotist's commands.
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Progressive relaxation and imagery - This is the
method commonly employed by psychiatrists. By
speaking to the subject in a slow, soothing voice,
the hypnotist gradually brings on total relaxation
and focus, easing into full hypnosis. Typically,
self-hypnosis training and relaxation and meditation
audio tapes use this method.
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Loss of balance - This method creates a loss of
equilibrium using slow, rhythmic rocking. Parents
have been putting babies to sleep with this method
for thousands of years.
Before hypnotists bring a subject into a full trance, they
generally test his or her willingness and capacity to be
hypnotized. The typical testing method is to make several
simple suggestions, such as "Relax your arms
completely," and work up to suggestions that ask
the subject to suspend disbelief or distort normal
thoughts, such as "Pretend you are weightless."
Doing it
The process of getting someone into trance generally
follows four steps:
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Induction
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Deepening
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Suggestion
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Awakening
Induction
Induction is used to get the subject to the desired state
where suggestion can begin. Deepening is used to reinforce
the induction state, often you’ll use this immediately
before and after the suggestion step. The suggestion step
itself is where you’ll do the "meat" of what you’re hoping
to do. The awakening step is, as the name implies, the step
in which you bring the subject back to their normal state
of mind.
Ok, so lets get started. The first two example scripts are
used to Induce the trance state. The key to making these
work is the use of your voice. Knowing what tone to take
and when to pause are just something you’ll have to learn
with experience. I suggest keeping a printout of this
handy. Since many of these examples use a numeric count
method, I also recommend you count on your fingers so you
don’t lose your place!
Example: Induction Technique #1 (Fixation Object Method)
Instructions to hypnotist
This is the traditional method of inducing hypnosis. The
subject is asked to direct their gaze at the fixation
object and not shift their focus. The hypnotist can
intensify the induction by observing the subjects
reactions and timing his suggestions very closely
with them. For example, the remark, "Occasionally,
they are going to blink," might be made immediately
after he perceives a blink.
Spoken to subject
Stare at the shiny part of (fixation object). Fix your eyes
on it. Take a few deep breaths. Just keep breathing deeply.
Listen to the sound of my voice. You will find that your
eyelids have a tendency to get heavy. Almost as if they
had a heavy weight attached to them. And the longer you
stare at this, the more your eyelids get heavy, and you
blink, and they have a feeling like something is pulling
them down, as if they wanted to slowly close, and get
drowsier and sleepier and heavier. And you have a feeling
as if they were slowly closing, slowly closing, getting
drowsier and more tired, and when they finally do close,
how good you'll feel. Drowsy, heavy, pulling down, down,
down, slowly closing, getting harder and harder to see,
and you feel good. Very, very hard to keep them open,
feel that very soon they will close tightly, almost
tightly closing, almost tightly closing, tightly
closing. Your eyes are tightly closed; you feel good;
you feel comfortable; you're relaxed all over; just
let yourself drift and enjoy this comfortable relaxed
state. You will find that you head will get heavier;
tends to nod forward some, and you just let yourself
drift in an easy, calm, relaxed state.
Example: Induction Technique #2 (Gil Boyne Method)
Spoken to the subject:
You are about to enjoy a very pleasant and a very
beneficial experience.
First, be sure that you will not be disturbed.
Second, remove your shoes or any apparel that will
interfere with your physical comfort in any way.
Third, now stretch out on your back, with your legs separated,
so that no part of your calves or thighs are touching. Keep
feet separated at least 8 to 10 inches; arms extended loosely
and limply alongside your body, palms facing downward and fingers
limply outstretched.
Once we begin, you can help by remaining quiet and passive.
Our first goal is for you to become unaware of your body.
You can best achieve that goal by avoiding movement.
The first thing that I want you to do is to fix your eyes
at a spot on the ceiling overhead. Pick out an imaginary
spot, and stare at that spot without moving a muscle.
Now, take a deep breath and fill up your lungs. Exhale slowly.
Sleep now.
Now, take a second and even deeper breath. Take in all the
air that your lungs can hold. Exhale slowly.
Sleep now.
Now, let your eyelids close down. Now, your eyelids are closed
down. Please leave them closed down until I ask you to open
them again. You will always be able to open your eyes, unless
I were to give you a direct command and tell you that your
eyelids are locked closed. And I don't intend to do that.
Hypnosis is a state of mind, not a state of eyelids.
Now, I want you to mentally picture and imagine that you
are looking at the muscles in the tips of the toes of your
left foot. In your imagination, follow those muscles as
they move back into the ball of the foot. In your imagination,
follow those muscles as they move back into the ball of the
foot. Back into the arch, and all the way back into the heel.
Now, turn all those muscles loose. Let them grow limp and lazy,
just like a handful of loose rubber bands.
Now, as the muscles begin to relax, just let your mind relax,
too. Let your mind drift where it will. Let your mind drift
off to pleasant scenes in you imagination.
And now, let the relaxation move on up, into the ankle now.
From the ankle, all the way up to the left knee. The calf
muscles begin to grow loose and limp -- heavy, and so relaxed.
All of your tensions are fading away. You're relaxing more
with each easy breath that you take. Begin breathing more
deeply, now, just as you breathe each night, when you are
deep and sound in slumber. Just imagine that you can see
your breath as a white mist, coming from your nostrils.
Each and every time that you exhale this white mist,
you are freeing yourself of tension, and going deeper,
deeper into drowsy relaxation.
Now, from the knee, all the way to the left hip, the long
thigh muscles are turning loose, easing off, and just
relaxing now. Now, as those muscles relax, just let go
a little more, and gently, calmly, easily, drift on
over, into a pleasant state of easy relaxation.
Now let the wave of relaxation that started from the
toes of your left foot just a few seconds ago -- let
it move over now into the toes of the right foot, back
into the arch, and all the way back to the heel. Turn
all of those muscles loose, and go deeper and deeper
into relaxation.
Into the ankle, the muscles let go. From the ankle, all
the way up to the right knee. The calf muscles are turning
loose and letting go.
You're relaxing more with each easy breath that you take.
With each sound that you hear. Each sound carries you
deeper, deeper and sounder in sleep.
From the knee, all the way up to the right hip. The long
thigh muscles grow limp and lazy. Now, as those muscles
relax, just go all the way down, deeper and deeper in
drowsy slumber.
Turn them all loose and go deeper in sleep.
Now, the wave of relaxation moves on up, into the stomach
now. Into the solar plexus, the center of nervous energy.
Each muscle and nerve lets loose the tensions, relaxing.
You're drifting down, deeper and deeper in sleep. Down,
deeper in slumber.
Up through the ribs, the muscles relax. Into the broad
muscles of the chest. The muscles of the chest grow limp
and loose, and so relaxed. All of your tensions are
fading away.
You're relaxing now, more with each easy beat of your
heart, and going deeper in drowsy slumber.
Into the neck, the muscles let go. All around the neck,
the muscles relax, just as they relax each night when you
are deep and sound in sleep. Turn them all loose, and go
deeper and deeper in slumber. Now let the relaxation start
down your back. From the base of the skull to the base of
the spine. Each muscle and nerve along the spine lets
loose the tension, relaxing, your drifting down. Deeper
and deeper in sleep. down deeper in drowsy slumber.
And the wave of relaxation spreads out into the broad
muscles of the back. All across the small of the back.
All across the back of the shoulders. Turn loose every
muscle and every nerve in the back, and go deeper and
deeper in sleep.
Into the shoulder, the muscles let go. From the shoulders,
down to the elbows of both arms. The upper arm muscles are
turning loose, easing off, and just relaxing now.
From the elbows, down to the wrists on both arms, the
forearm muscles grow limp and lazy.
From the wrists to the fingertips of both hands, each
muscle and nerve lets loose the tensions, relaxing,
you're drifting down. Deeper and deeper in sleep.
Into the jaws, the muscles relax. The jaws are parting
slightly, teeth not quite touching. All around the mouth,
the muscles let go.
Up through the nose, each nerve gives way. All around the
eyes, the muscles are heavy, and so relaxed. Even your
eyebrows are relaxing now. Across the forehead, the muscles
smooth out. Across the top of the skull. Down the back of
the neck. Down through the temples, back around the ears,
all of the muscles are loose, and lazy -- just like a handful
of loose rubber bands.
And you may feel now, a pleasant tingling sensation in the
tips of your toes, or in your fingertips -- a pleasant
tingling sensation, growing stronger and stronger now,
as your entire body is being bathed in the pleasant glow
of complete and utter relaxation.
Now you are completely relaxed. Each muscle and nerve in
your body is loose and limp and relaxed, and you feel good.
Signs of Trance
Now that the induction part of the effort is complete,
you’ll need to take stock in the subject. There are several
outward signs of trance that can be observed in all subjects.
These signs can not be simulated by the subject. The subject
will exhibit at least one, and in many cases, multiple signs.
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Body warmth:
Many subjects note a distinct change in body temperature.
Many subjects feel cold, and others feel warm. This is
attributed to the lower pulse rate and extreme relaxation
of the subject.
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Fluttering eyelids (R. E. M.):
Virtually all subjects in trance exhibit a 'fluttering
of eyelids'. The subject is actually in R. E. M. state.
(Rapid Eye Movement)
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Reddening of the eyes:
All subjects will demonstrate a reddening of the eyes
once they've entered trance. This phenomenon is attributed
to the relaxation of the muscles in the eyes of the
subject, allowing a greater flow of blood through
the veins.
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Increased lacrimation:
Many subjects, upon entering trance, will exhibit an
increased 'tearing of the eyes.' This is attributed
to the relaxation of the muscles surrounding the
tear ducts.
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Eyes rolling back:
Many subjects, upon entering trance, will experience
their eyes rolling back in their head. It will appear
as if the subject is looking up through the top of his
head.
I’ve also provided an example of a testing technique you
can use to see if your subject is really in trance.
Testing technique (Eye Catalepsy)
Spoken to the subject:
(Optionally, place your right thumb on the bridge of the subjects
nose and apply slight pressure) I'm going to count from five down
to one. As I do, you're eyelids lock so tightly closed that the
more you try to open them, the tighter they're locking closed.
Five, your eyes are pressing down tightly.
Four, pressing down and sealing shut.
Three, sealing as if they were glued.
Two, they're locked shut. The more you try to open
them, the tighter they're locking closed.
Okay, try to open your eyelids now and find them locking
tighter and tighter. That's fine. You can stop trying now.
Just relaxed and go deeper.
Deepening
If everything went well then you’re ready to enter the Suggestion
step. I always use a Deepening technique here however, just to
make sure the subject is ready for suggestion. Doesn’t hurt!
They’re usually short and sweet and you can use them anytime
you think the subject is coming out of trance. Use them often
if you’re in an environment that’s loud and distracting. Deepening
techniques are provided below.
Example: Deepening Technique #1
Spoken to the subject:
Turn loose now, relax. Let a good, pleasant feeling come all
across your body. Let every muscle and every nerve grow so
loose and so limp and so relaxed. Arms limp now, just like
a rag doll. That's good.
Now, send a pleasant wave of relaxation over your entire body,
from the top of your head to the tips of your toes. Just let
every muscle and nerve grow loose and limp and relaxed. You
are feeling more relaxed with each easy breath that you
take.
Droopy, drowsy and sleepy. So calm and so relaxed. You're
relaxing more with each easy beat of your heart ... with
each easy breath that you take ... with each sound that
you hear.
Example: Deepening Technique #2 (Staircase method)
Spoken to the subject:
In a moment I'm going to relax you more completely.
In a moment I'm going to begin counting backwards
from 10 to 1.
The moment I say the number 10 you will allow your
eyelids to remain closed.
The moment I say the number 10, you will, in your minds eye,
see yourself at the top of a small set of stairs.
The moment I say the number 9, and each additional number,
you will simply move down those stairs relaxing more completely.
At the base of the stairs is a large feather bed, with
a comfortable feather pillow.
The moment I say the number one you will simply sink into
that bed, resting your head on that feather pillow.
Number 10, eyes closed at the top of those stairs. Ten ...
Nine, relaxing and letting go. Nine ...
Eight, sinking into a more comfortable, calm, peaceful position ...
Seven ....
Six ... going way down ...
Five ... moving down those stairs, relaxing more completely.
Four ...
Three ... breathe in deeply ...
Two ... On the next number, number one, simply sinking into
that bed, becoming more calm, more peaceful, more relaxed ...
One ... Sinking into that feather bed, let every muscle
go limp and loose as you sink into a more calm, peaceful
state of relaxation.
Example: Deepening Technique #3
Spoken to the subject:
Your arms are loose and limp, just like a rag doll. As I raise
your hand, just let all of the weight hang limply in my fingers.
An when I drop it, send a wave of relaxation all across your body.
As you feel you hand touch your body, send that wave of relaxation
from the top of your head all the way down to the very tips of
your toes.
And as you do, you find that you double your previous level of
relaxation.
Now, once again, with the other hand. (Repeat with other hand)
Example:
Deepening Technique #4 (Stiff Arm method)
Spoken to the subject
Raise and stiffen you arm. Make a fist. (Help subject achieve
this position, then let go) That's good. Just like a steel bar,
stiff and powerful. So stiff and rigid and so powerful that the
more you try to lower or bend your arm, the stiffer and tighter
it becomes. Try to lower or bend your arm and find it locking
stiff; stiff and rigid. The harder you try, the stiffer it
becomes.
That's fine. When I touch your forehead, your arm drops
limply down and you go deeper in sleep. (Tap forehead)
Awakening
Once you’re all done with whatever it is you wanted to accomplish,
its time to bring the subject back to their normal state. Don’t
worry, if you don’t then they’ll most likely just fall asleep
and wake up naturally. It’s impossible for someone to stay
in trance on their own for long periods of time. Here’s an
example of an Awakening Technique.
Example: Awakening Technique
Spoken to the subject:
(Based on the type of session, you may care to skip this paragraph)
Each time that you use this method for easy relaxation, you
relax more easily, more quickly, and more deeply. Relaxation
is a skill that you are easily developing with trance.
Now, I'm going to count from one to five, and then I'll say,
"Fully aware." At the count of five, your eyes are
open, and you are then fully aware, feeling calm, rested,
refreshed, relaxed.
All right. One: slowly, calmly, easily you're returning to
your full awareness once again.
Two: each muscle and nerve in your body is loose and limp
and relaxed, and you feel wonderfully good.
Three: from head to toe, you are feeling perfect in every
way. Physically perfect, mentally perfect, emotionally
calm and serene.
On the number four, your eyes begin to feel sparkling clear.
On the next number I count, eyelids open, fully aware, feeling
calm, rested, refreshed, relaxed, invigorated, full of energy.
Number five: You're fully aware now. Eyelids open. Take a good,
deep breath, fill up your lungs, and stretch.
Aftercare
Post-hypnosis aftercare is in many ways the same as any other
post-play care. The subject should remember everything that
happened and may feel somewhat embarrassed. Be sure to address
this issue. Even someone who is really big into humiliation can
be pushed beyond the bounds of their limits. Now is the time
to have that cup of water and a warm blanket ready. However,
if you remember to touch some of the aspects included in the
above awakening technique, the subject will usually feel
refreshed and relaxed, like they just woke up from a long
nap on a sunny Sunday afternoon. This is ideal but as with
any kind of edge play, you’ve got to be prepared for the
worst-case scenario.
Safety!
Hypnosis is EDGE PLAY!
You’re going in and mucking around with the senses, perceptions
and memories of the subject. Even if you don’t do anything that
you consider edgy that doesn’t mean the subject doesn’t think
that. It can be a heavy-duty experience for both parties.
Falling down:
The core technique in getting someone to trance is to have them
relax. Relaxing muscles don’t tend to hold someone up very well
so take this into consideration if you’re doing a scene where
the subject is standing. Include some sentences into your
Induction and Deepening techniques that say things like:
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"Just as a horse can stand and sleep without losing
its balance, so too your legs are strong beneath you. You
can stand and sleep. "
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(Alternate to horse description)" Your legs are
stiff and rigid beneath you, supporting your body
as you stand straight and erect."
Pain and Body Language:
There’s good pain and there’s bad pain. When in trance a
subject often looses the ability to determine if their
body is hurt. Its similar to the effects of alcohol. You’ve
got to watch what you’re doing to the subject while they’re
under, their body language may be completely different than
what you’re used to seeing from the person.
Mental Trauma:
Some really bad shit can come from a heavy duty mind fuck.
Regressing someone down to their childhood then doing sexual
things to them may implant the memory of child abuse and all
the emotions that come with it. Furthermore, a person tends
to lose their inhibitions when in trance, especially a wakeful
trance, and emotional defenses they’ve had up for years may come
tumbling down.
If anything bad happens, follow the normal course of the session
regardless of what the other person is doing. End the session
with an Awakening and go into comfort mode. You need to finish
with an Awakening as it signals the subject’s mind that the
unusual state (the trance) is over and to return to normal.
When a person is in trance they are
living
the trauma. When they are out of trance they are
remembering
it.
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