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RUMPOULE
, Attorney-at-Law, is a practicing attorney for over two decades,
and a frequent lecturer on legal issues in the Scene.
BDSM and D/s and the Law
A Little About Me
I have been a criminal defense lawyer for over twenty years.
I've also been in the leather lifestyle for nearly twenty-five
years. I am submissive to women as a preferred form of sexuality and
lifestyle.
I decided I wanted to give something back to people who,
like me, have a different kind sexuality or lifestyle by
learning about how the law affects us. I want to collect
and pass that information on to the community's members by
giving lectures and acting as a resource.
Introduction
As you read this, you may find it to be a little frightening. Please
remember that, in a legal sense just as in health considerations, there
is no such thing as "safe sex." There is however, with education,
"safer sex." Just as in the health arena, education and caution
can help to avoid frightening results. So be aware of what you are doing,
act responsibly, and you will find you can avoid that which you may fear.
Please keep in mind that there are 50 states, the District of Columbia
and the United States. Federal laws generally do not have much impact.
In fact, J. Edgar Hoover once said, "I regret to say that we of the
FBI are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital intimacy, unless it
has in some way obstructed interstate commerce."
Also, within each state there are counties and cities. Each of these
areas has their own laws. It would be impossible to inform you of the
specific laws in each of these areas. Also, laws change quickly, so
what I might write today, may be wrong tomorrow.
So I am only able to tell you the areas of concern and give you the
law generally and, in some instances, make specific references to
illustrate certain ideas. Please use this information as a guide.
If you have a specific problem, or need, contact me and I will try
to help you as best I can.
Last, while I feel I have something to offer the community from my
experience and knowledge, this is an area of law that has never
really been developed. To be very honest, I am learning this as I
go. Being a good resource sometimes requires me to listen or read
more than to speak or write.
So, please, feel free to drop me a line with any information that
you think may be helpful. Please give as much detail as you can
such as newspaper names and dates or specific court information.
Obviously I do not want any details that should be kept confidential,
but where public information is available, I would like it to document
my files.
Send your email to:
RUMPOULE
SM Play Generally
Possible Criminal Charges
The area that I am asked about most often is assault. Tops are afraid
they will be charged with assault for their actions. Bottoms have
different, but related fears. Assault is generally defined as any
touching done with the intent to injure, insult or provoke. In many
places simple assaults can be made into "aggravated" assaults
depending on certain circumstances related to the status of the victim
or the use of objects or weapons.
In most places, "consent" is a defense to assault. However,
you should be aware that consent is not always going to be available
as a defense. For example, in the Spanner case, 16 gay men in England
doing SM privately were arrested and charged with a number of crimes.
Regarding assault charges, the defense of "consent" was raised,
but denied by the court on the grounds of "public policy."
Basically the court decided that the law should not allow someone to
consent to be assaulted. Most interesting of the cases was that of
John Atkinson, a bottom, who was convicted solely of having aided
and abetted others in his own assault.
Consent will also not stand as a defense when the victim lacked the
capacity to consent. So if the Bottom is under the influence of drugs
or alcohol, their ability to give meaningful consent may be impaired.
Similarly, if consent is obtained by fraud, it will not be available
as a defense. So, for example, if a Top misrepresents his abilities
or experience, say with a single-tail whip, he may not be able to
claim consent as a defense if charged.
Other potential criminal charges include sexual assault if sex play
is involved and kidnapping and false imprisonment if bondage is used.
While these crimes are different from assault, usually the defense will
be consent. Again, consent may be a defense as long as the jurisdiction
does not prohibit it for public policy reasons, and if the "victim"
has the capacity to give consent and does so knowledgeably.
Indecent or lewd conduct is also a crime on the books of many states.
Usually this requires exposing parts of the body, or engaging in conduct
that is considered lewd or indecent by the public. You should be careful
when engaging in "public" scenes. If the activity is done privately,
or in semi-public space where participants have been warned and consented to
being exposed to what will be happening, there should not be any problem.
Possession of illegal weapons, objects or substances is another area of
concern. This is an area where local laws differ a lot. Be careful of
carrying a concealed weapon if you do not have a permit to do so. Remember
that some weapons may be illegal, or cannot be carried concealed depending
on their character. A simple folding pocketknife may be legal to carry
concealed in your pocket in most places. But in some places, depending
on the blade size, it may not. Needles may be illegal to possess in some
places. And remember that it may be illegal to wear an authentic police,
fire or military uniform.
Sodomy laws still existed in 20 states as of 1994. In 1986 in Bowers v.
Hardwick, the United States Supreme Court ruled that the constitutional
right to privacy (recognized in Griswald v. Connecticut dealing with the
right to birth control devices) does not extend to homosexual sodomy.
Hardwick was a gay Atlanta man who filed an action to have the Georgia
sodomy statute declared unconstitutional. The fact that he was not
imprisoned or charged affected the swing vote of Justice Lewis Powell.
Powell held there was no privacy right violation, but wrote that
imprisonment for such conduct might constitute cruel and unusual
punishment under the 8th Amendment. After retiring, Powell said
that he probably erred in not finding a privacy right. However,
in early March, 1998 the U.S. Supreme Court ruled for the first
time in Oncale v. Sundowner Offshore, that unlawful sexual harassment
in the workplace extends to incidents involving employees of the same
sex. Ironically, in order to keep the case from being a "gay
rights" case, the court reasoned with a broader brush saying
"harassment is harassment." Thus there may be application
of the case to BDSM, D/s situations.
Advice
Remember that although you may have negotiated a scene with someone,
the public around you was not part of those discussions and may not
understand what you are doing is consensual and someone may call the
police. Also, since the O.J. Simpson case, the police have taken a
hard line on domestic abuse situations and frequently will make an
arrest even when the "victim" says what happened was
consensual.
If the police do show up the first thing you must remember to do
is to stay calm. If you lose your calm, or get belligerent or indignant
with officers, they will not listen to you.
You may have a choice in some things, and not in others. If the police
arrive at your home because neighbors have heard blood-curdling screams,
they have a duty, and the right, to make sure everyone one is all right.
While your activities are safe, sane and consensual, we all want the police
to be able to enter a home in an emergency situation to rescue someone who
is the victim of a violent criminal. Again, remembering to stay calm will
help a great deal. And not just the Top! It is even more important for the
Bottom to be able to speak calmly and confidently to the police and explain
that while he or she was screaming, it was all being done for mutual enjoyment
and with consent.
If, for some reason, you do not want the police to enter your home, you
should say so in a calm voice and in clear terms such as, "no, you
may not enter," or "no, you do not have my permission to
search," or "I want you to leave now." The police may
threaten to get a warrant. But don't be intimidated by their threat to
do that. On the other hand, if the police, despite this, tell you they
are going to enter, then step aside and do not resist.
If you have been arrested, you should remain silent. You should also
remain calm and, regardless of whether the officers are right or wrong,
do not resist them. You should also remember, and record in writing as
soon as possible before your memory fades, the name and badge numbers
of the officers as well as the facts of what happened. Record this on
a piece of paper and, at the top of the paper, write in bold letters,
"FOR MY ATTORNEY."
You should consult with a lawyer as soon as you can. Do not discuss the
case with ANYONE except an attorney.
If you have not been arrested but, for some reason, do not want to speak
to the police, you do not have to. Again, if you intend to remain silent,
do so in a calm voice and in clear terms such as "I don't want to
talk to you," or "I want to speak to a lawyer first."
On the other hand, if you have not been arrested, and talking to the
police seems like a good thing to do to explain an innocent situation,
remember one thing: tell the truth. Do not say anything that is untruthful
and do not hide anything.
Sometimes, criminals who do not believe in safe, sane and consensual
conduct victimize members of our community. Someone may consent to
bondage and flogging, but not sexual activity, and find that themselves
to be the victim of a sexual assault. If this happens, you need to decide
quickly if you are going to report the offense to the police. It is a
personal decision. But if you want a successful prosecution of the assailant,
you should do some things to help.
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Stay calm.
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Get medical assistance.
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Call the police immediately.
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Do not shower, urinate, or clean up.
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Take pictures.
You may also wish to consult with an attorney or get other support
from friends.
BDSM, D/s Pornography
Pornography is far too large of a subject for this forum, but a few
things need to be touched on. Private possession of sexually explicit
materials is not likely to be a problem other than in two areas.
One of these areas relates to children. It is a crime in ALL states to
furnish a minor with pornography. In a lot of cases, predators of children
would not actually show children pornography, but would leave it out and
rely on the natural inquisitiveness of children. They would claim that
they did not show these materials to children. In response, most states
have passed laws that make it a crime to recklessly or negligently expose
children to pornography. As a result, in many states there is strict liability
under these laws.
If you have sexually explicit materials in your home and children get
their hands on them, you may be found guilty of an extremely serious
offense. This is close to what happened in the Horton case.
ProDommes and Prostitution and Pandering
Prostitution is usually defined as "sexual conduct for money." A
number of professional dominants, male submissives that wanted to see
professional dominants, and people wishing to start private dungeons and
place spaces that require an admission fee have consulted me.
The laws in this area vary a great deal from state to state. For example,
in most areas of California, professional Dommes are not arrested for
prostitution as long as there is no "sexual contact" with the
client. However, in Arizona, prostitution is defined to include
"Sadomasochistic abuse" which is further defined to include,
"flagellation or torture by or upon a person who is nude or clad in
undergarments or in revealing or bizarre costume or the condition of being
fettered, bound or otherwise physically restrained on the part of one so
clothed."
Penalties can vary as well. Usually prostitution is a misdemeanor. But,
even still, depending on local laws, a conviction can result in a lengthy
sentence.
Prostitution laws also apply to the clients as well. In most states, law
enforcement not only set up "stings" on prostitutes by posing
as clients, but also set up stings on the clients by posing as prostitutes.
Misdemeanor prostitution can suddenly become a pandering or "pimping"
charge if others are employed in prostitution offenses. This is usually a felony
in most states. Pandering charges have been applied in some cases where people
have opened private "SM clubs" and charged for admittance. Probably
there is no problem where people are on their own in finding partners. But
where partners are provided by management, even if there is not an extra
charge, charges have been brought.
So, be very careful any time money is being charged in connection with a
sexually related activity. Especially when there is a profit that goes into
someone's pocket, rather than covering expenses.
The best thing to do is contact an experienced criminal defense attorney in
your area to learn not only the laws, but what police enforcement and prosecution
policies are.
On a lighter note, in the Netherlands where prostitution is legal, the Fire
Marshall announced a regulation that that customers could not be put in bondage
that took longer than 30 seconds to release.
Possible Civil Charges
Anything that can result in criminal charges can also result in a civil
complaint as well. A prosecutor brings criminal charges after reviewing
the police reports and evidence. Civil charges, or lawsuits, can be brought
by individual citizens, but can only result in monetary damages and not
incarceration.
The proof required in a civil suit is less than the "proof beyond
reasonable doubt" standard in a criminal case.
In addition to the matters discussed for criminal prosecution, civil suits
may cover a number of other matters as well. Actions for negligence, for
example, may be brought for providing faulty equipment or failing to maintain
it. Or for failing to exercise due care in building it. Thus, for example,
if someone is suspended from a 2x2 piece of wood and it breaks, the person
or entity responsible for setting up the scene equipment could be held liable
for the injuries.
Private and public play spaces and equipment needs to be carefully inspected
and maintained. The premises must satisfy local fire codes giving consideration
to the materials used and having accessible and well-lighted exit signs.
Another matter that I wonder about is when people or groups make
representations of safety. Aside from negating consent as discussed
above, you can be held to a higher standard if you promise someone a
"safe" place to play out fantasies. You can become a guarantor
of whatever you promise, even if you were not negligent and did anything
any reasonable person could do. It is best to tell people that you try to
maintain these standards, but that they, too, must take responsibility for
the safety of their own play.
Some people use waivers to try to protect themselves or their groups from
liability for injuries. Waivers are generally, but not always, unenforceable
because, as a matter of public policy it is considered a bad idea to allow
people to waive liability for another person's negligence. However, while
not an absolute defense, waivers can be evidence to show that the injured
person assumed the risk of their conduct in participating in the event or
activity. Similarly waivers can be used to show the state of mind of the
person who signed the waiver and that they were aware of various inherent
risks in what they were doing. So make sure the "waiver" spells
out potential risk. Waivers with specific risks spelled out are a good idea
but do not count on them for absolute protection.
Premises liability insurance to cover faulty equipment, loose carpeting,
and other matters is also a good idea.
Master-Slave Contracts.
Master/Slave contracts are not binding.
They do serve other good purposes however in the same way that a well-drafted
waiver does. That is to say, to show the knowledge, intent, and state of mind
of the parties at the time the contract is signed. Such contracts can be used
to show what the parties agreed to and that they were aware of certain risks.
They can spell out the promises that have been made, and not made, with regard
to property just like a pre-nuptial agreement.
The parties might also want to have witnesses who would be willing to come
to court and testify about the circumstances of the signing and/or ceremony
to establish that the agreement was entered into voluntarily, consensually,
and without coercion or force.
Bars and Liquor Control, and Alcohol/Drug use
Generally speaking, when alcohol is being served in public, the government
is allowed to be much stricter than in other situations. Thus there are a
number of things to be concerned about depending on your state or local laws.
Often it is unlawful for someone to expose their nipples (if female), pubic
hair, genitals, anus, or even the cleft of the anus. Wearing a device that
simulates any of the areas which must be covered may also be prohibited.
Touching or fondling, directly or indirectly, breasts, buttocks, or genitals
may be unlawful.
There may be increased liability when alcohol or drugs are involved. This
is true even in a private setting.
Divorce and Child Custody
This is a particularly difficult and frightening area.
The first thing you must remember is that if there is even a hint of
a problem with your lifestyle as it relates to your children, you need
to contact an attorney right away.
I would like to say that sexual lifestyle is not considered by the courts
in determining issues relating to divorce and child custody. There are
some cases that even say this. But even if you live in a progressive state
whose courts have said this, the simple fact remains that people hear cases.
When these people put on black robes they are supposed to leave their
personal prejudices behind. But sometime they don't or can't. Thus a
judge deciding a custody issue may, at the least, subconsciously be
influenced by a sexual lifestyle that he or she considers to be offensive.
The ruling may not mention lifestyle and may appear to be decided on other
reasons. But underneath, that was the reason.
So consult an attorney right away, and don't be shy about your lifestyle
when discussing the case.
A Final Note.
NLA Legal Project, Leather Leadership Conference
and what Gays have Done
Law is not static. It changes over time. Changes can occur relatively quickly
in the politically driven institutions such as the United States Congress and
the state legislatures. But in the courts, change comes slowly. Courts are
political too, but react more slowly to public pressure for change. They
are meant to be a moderating influence from immediate public pressure. And
laws, which should be predictable, are not when they change rapidly. It
should also be kept in mind that the law is never absolute. Even in the
area of free speech, Justice Holmes wrote that it does not protect someone
from "falsely shouting fire in a theatre and causing a panic."
(Schenck v. United States, 249 U.S. 47 (1919).)
As a young man in the late 60s, I saw the legal profession as way to help
bring about the changes in society that I wanted to see. One of them was
freedom from governmental interference in people's private sexual affairs.
There have been some positive changes. And there have been some areas of
great disappointment. But change will come.
In 1872 in Bradwell v. State of Illinois, an Illinois woman was denied
the right to be an attorney based solely on her sex. The United States
Supreme Court held, "[T]he civil law, as well as nature herself,
has always recognized a wide difference in the respective spheres and
destinies of man and woman. Man is, or should be, woman's protector
and defender. The natural and proper timidity and delicacy which belongs
to the female sex evidently unfits it for many of the occupations of
civil life. The paramount destiny and mission of woman are to fulfill
the noble and benign offices of wife and mother. This is the law of
the Creator."
The Gay and Lesbian community has supported a legal defense and education fund,
Lambda, for over 25 years. We need to work toward change in the leather community
as well. The NLA has a project and I will be working with the Leather Leadership
Conference next year on this area as well. You can help by sending me information
on leather legal issues in your area.
SEND INQUIRIES AND INFORMATION ABOUT LEGAL ISSUES TO
rumpoule@aol.com
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