Many people have a fetish for fisting and fisting can
be a wonderful sexual experience. However, you should
know what you are doing before you try it out. Here is
a step-to-step guide.
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Clip your nails short and buff them if necessary
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Wash your hands thoroughly with warm soapy water.
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Warm the lubricant (KY Jelly works best) still in the
tube in a cup of really warm water.
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Have your partner lay on their back in a comfortable
position.
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Talk dirty, touch, kiss - in other words get things
warmed up.
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Start coating the entire vaginal region with the
warm lube.
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Make sure and massage the perineum (the stretchy skin
at the bottom of the vagina).
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Coat your hand in lube.
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Slowly start inserting fingers one at a time, moving
them around as you go.
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When you can get all four fingers inside - pull out.
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Fold your thumb into the palm of your hand.
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While your hand is still open, push your way through
the tight opening (moving very slowly).
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Have your partner take several deep breaths as you
pass through the opening.
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Once your hand is inside, experiment with moving
your hand in circles and lightly pushing it in and
out.
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Remove your hand just as carefully and slowly as
you inserted it.