How to Fist (vaginally) Many people have a fetish for fisting and fisting can be a wonderful sexual experience. However, you should know what you are doing before you try it out. Here is a step-to-step guide. | Difficulty Level: hard | Time Required: |
Here's How: - Clip your nails short and buff them if necessary
- Wash your hands thoroughly with warm soapy water.
- Warm the lubricant (KY Jelly works best) still in the tube in a cup of really warm water.
- Have your partner lay on their back in a comfortable position.
- Talk dirty, touch, kiss - in other words get things warmed up.
- Start coating the entire vaginal region with the warm lube.
- Make sure and massage the perineum (the stretchy skin at the bottom of the vagina).
- Coat your hand in lube.
- Slowly start inserting fingers one at a time, moving them around as you go.
- When you can get all four fingers inside - pull out.
- Fold your thumb into the palm of your hand.
- While your hand is still open, push your way through the tight opening (moving very slowly).
- Have your partner take several deep breaths as you pass through the opening.
- Once your hand is inside, experiment with moving your hand in circles and lightly pushing it in and out.
- Remove your hand just as carefully and slowly as you inserted it.
Tips: - Use lots of lube and keep adding it as you go.
- Remember that the tissue is thin so don't scratch
- When removing your hand try inserting a finger from your other hand to break the vacuum seal that may develop
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