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Old Guard, New Guard?
by Lord Saber
I've noticed since I've been online a real trend for Doms to
claim they are "Old Guard." And too when I first started
going online, virtually all the submissives I chat with
would call me Sir. This threw me a bit at first, since no
one I know in the "real-life" scene calls me that.
They call me by my real name and that's fine. I don't expect
anyone to fall to their knees and call me "Master"
or "Sir" just because I'm a Dom! This protocol of calling a
Dom "Sir" or a Domme "Ma'am" probably dates back to
so-called "Old Guard" policy and seems to be something the
"onliners" started doing without having a concept as to why
it was done originally.
But it seems in people's haste to call themselves "Old
Guard," just who are the true "Old Guard?" Are
they the gay leathermen of the late 1940s and 1950s who adopted
protocols they got from their military background serving in
WWII? Are they the people of the 1970s like Cynthia Slater who
helped found Society of Janus? Or the folk of the 1980s who
helped popularize SM? Or is it people like even myself who first
got involved in this scene back in the early 1990s and can
now be considered an "old-timer"?
My friend Jay Wiseman (of SM101 fame) and I have spoken
several times about this topic. Here's what he has to say
about this "Old Guard trend."
"I do think that there is very definitely a tendency
nowadays to romanticize and idealize "The Old Guard" people
-- and it does seem like the less first-hand knowledge
someone has about them the more pronounced this tendency
often is. A large part of the problem is that entirely too
few of the "old guard" people are still alive, and the void
thus created allows people to project their fantasies,
however unrealistic, with relatively little risk of credible
correction."
Very well said. I've seen this kind of behavior often online
and to a lesser extent in the so-called real world, and I've
often wondered why.
Jay's reasoning on is that "I think that there is often a
certain yearning for status, and that people can attempt to
achieve this status for themselves in an often sort of
ex-post-facto way by claiming to follow "the old guard
teachings" -- but exacty what these teaching are, who taught
them, why _that_ person is entitled to be considered an
expert on "the old guard" and, most importantly, exactly how
these teachings are "better" than the "newer"
teachings is often very, very unclear."
And herein lies the problem. Just what REALLY is Old Guard?
I've heard it said by long-time members of the San Francisco
scene that anyone around today who says they are Old Guard
most probably really aren't! Perhaps the people that call
themselves "Old Guard" do this because the term evokes an
automatic type of respect among others, especially
submissives who long to hear what the "good old days of Old
Guard" were like.
Truth is, there probably really wasn't ONE TRUE WAY of doing
Old Guard, that several different "families" around in these
so- called "olden days" probably had some main ideas and
protocols they followed, but developed variations on the
"Old Guard" theme, sort of like Baskin-Robbins' 31 flavors
of ice cream!
Joseph Bean, of the Leather Archives and Musuem in Chicago
has written an essay called "Old Guard? If You say so." He
address this confusion about what is or isn't Old Guard at
one point in his essay:
"It's all become so much more complicated than it used to
be, and so very much more complicated than it ever needed to
be... Let me point out that there is nothing at all new
about this question."
In his essay Joseph goes on to talk about the changes that
went on in the gay leather "families" of the 1960s and
later.
"Order and acts of respectful mutual recognition are
contributions of the club-men from which we have derived
what is conceived today as The Old Guard. That is, the
current Old Guard was the new form of the late 1950s and
early 1960s. The (now so-conceived) conflict between the
values of the two groups came to a head any number of times,
with the businessmen usually deciding the compromise."
As to the question of what actually IS Old Guard, here is
Joseph's answer:
"The truth is that the Old Guard as is it conceived and
spoken of today is mostly myth. Some of the forms are
genuine and have history, but they never had the kind of
universal acceptance and weight they are given in "memory."
That is not a problem! If inventing a way of life that is
loosely (and sometimes comically so) based on the behaviors
of the "Old Guard" results in a myth that can breathe and
have value in the lives of leathermen today, so be it."
There certainly is nothing wrong with the desire to learn
more about Old Guard or any part of our scene history. In
fact, that's one of the reasons I spent over a year working
on writing the Society of Janus history. I felt it was
important for everyone to know about our past. However I am
uncomfortable with anyone calling themselves "Old Guard"
without really knowing what the term means or knowing much
about how Old Guard first started.
Last summer, I came across an excellent essay about Old
Guard on a web site. I felt this was an individual that
truly knew and had respect for a part of our past. Then last
month I was very disappointed to find out the author of the
piece was a phony, a "closet abuser" posing as a Dom and no
doubt using the "Old Guard"
moniker as a way to attract unsuspecting subs.
While this incident is most likely a very isolated one, I
would recommend using a little caution towards anyone
claiming to be "Old Guard." Ask questions of the person,
asking why they consider themselves to be Old Guard, where
they got their knowledge of Old Guard from, and also ask
them to give you some history about it.
If they refuse to answer any of your questions for whatever
reason or give you answers that sounds suspect, I would at
the very least take that as a red flag and look elsewhere.
I recommend a couple books that cover a little bit about Old
Guard. These books may or may not be out of print and you may have
to do some searching either in used book stores or on the
net to find them. One is LeatherFolk by Mark Thompson. Two
others are Leathersex by Joseph W. Bean and The Leathermen's
Handbook II by Larry Townsend.
I also have a page on my own web site devoted to SM history,
where I have links to a handful of essays about Old Guard.
The URL is
http://www.tdl.com/~thawley/history.htm
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I wonder as we start this new century and millennium what
will be considered "Old Guard" in 25 or even 50 years.
LS
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