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I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires,
limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so
will not only prevent my Top and I from having the best
experience possible, but can also lead to physical and
emotional harm.
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I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will not push to
make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words,
I will not top from the bottom.
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I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am
not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will
continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
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I will accept the responsibility of discovering what
pleases my Top, and will do my best to fulfill his
wishes and desires.
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I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I
know that submissive does not equal doormat.
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I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow
submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience
with others in the hope that they will learn and
benefit from where I have been. I will take the time
to help those new to the scene start out on the correct
path.
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I will be responsive to my Top. I will not try to
hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I
may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority.
I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not
expect my Top to know thoughts or feelings which I do
not share.
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I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or
relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame
on my Top when it is not warranted simply because he
is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work
out as they should at times, and will do my best to
put it behind me and move on.
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I will give my gift of submission only to those that
can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will
not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually,
nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.
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I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think
myself a "better" submissive because I choose
to submit on a different level than another. I will not
be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.
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I will be obedient to my Top even if I disagree with
what he is requesting. I realize he has my best interests
at heart and often knows better than I what I need in a
particular situation.
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I know that my actions reflect upon my Top, and will
do my best to help others see him in a positive way.
I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my
Dominant.
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Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with
honor. I will never cause others to think that being
submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take
pride in who and what I am and will never show myself
in a negative way.
