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Fur and Leather Fetishism
by Mistress Michelle Peters
Some early sexual researchers such as Krafft-Ebing often
equated bestiality with fur and leather fetishism, labeling
the phenomenon zooplilia erotica. While there may be some loose
connections between these two sexual deviations, it is clear
today that fur and leather fetishism is more of a fabric attachment,
than one to the animals from whose hides the materials came. In be
sure, there are evidences of some fur and animal-hide fetishists who
admit to experiencing strange attractions to animals as children. but
seldom if ever did they have sexual relations with the animals, as
the true animal sodomist would. And there are cases of' adults who
have fur and leather fetishes, who occasionally include a pet such
as a dog, in their lovemaking, but such cases are rare. A person with
any other deviation may be likely to cross over into bestiality in
rare cases. So while there are some similarities in the development
of some fur and leather fetishists with those who practice bestiality.
I am not convinced that the similarities are so strong as some of the
earlier sexual researchers may have believed. To be sure, to don the
hide of an animal is a psychological way of proving one's superiority
over it. especially in a person with a weak ego. But to many fur
fetishists. the feel of the texture is as important in the realization
of the fetish as the psychological reasons.
Fur and leather fetishism has long been closely related to some
facets of sadomasochism. Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch (whose name
was the origin of masochism) paid tribute to his mistress with
a whip in Venus In Furs. The English artist. Aubrey Beardsley
was a noted masochist, whose drawings often included a dominating
woman in furs. In Venus In Furs we can see the development of one
particular form of' fur fetishism, although it can take on many
other facets as in any form of fetishism. Although presented in
the form of a novel, the work is highly autobiographical, telling
of a young landowner named Severin, who allows his mistress to
bind him up and flog him, while she wears furs. While the story
is filled with sadomasochism, the fetishism is also quite evident.
In fact, some forms of sadomasochism are quite often tied in with
fetishism. In the book. Severin admits that the furs excite him
as much as the flogging, going so far as to sign a document that
allows her full power over him so long as she wears furs to enslave
him.
To be sure, some leather and fur fetishists may be latent in
their feelings for animals. Many horsewomen are fond of leather,
and are often able to achieve an orgasm while riding their mounts.
But their fixations with leather usually take on a more elicit tone
in adulthood, their feelings of dominance over the animals being
more psychological than physical. Often the attraction to leather
and fur is more visual than tactile, especially in cases where
sadomasochism or other ritualized forms of sex are carried out.
However, in most cases the sense of touch plays the dominant
role in arousing the fetishist sexually. Unlike most fetishes,
the fur fetish seems to be as popular, or possibly even more
popular among women than it is with men. Many women, as an
example. admit to having a distinctly sensual, and sometimes
erotic. sensation when putting on a mink coal. This is especially
acute when the woman is nude. or when she is fondling it in
preparation for erotic acts—either masturbatory: or if she is
using it prior to engaging in sexual inter course. Sometimes,
the feel of silk overlaps into the fur fetishist's sexual
stimulation as many fur coats are lined on the inside with
silk. Some female fur fetishists keep a coat or stole ."
handy in their closets just for such sexual occasions. Many
times, this will not be an expensive item, perhaps one so old
that she may have discarded it , had it not been for her fetishist
attachment to it. When utilized in a sexual encounter with her
husband, then, she will not be too concerned if it becomes stained
with semen. As a matter of fact, some women prize these stains,
treasuring them as if they were some form of testimony to her
prowess as a lover.
The female fur fetishist, like many other clothing and fabric
fetishists, will either wear the item herself, or have her lover
wear it. The latter is probably the more common situation. Many
men do not become turned-on to fur until later in life. Usually
this is when they do so out of love for their mate who happens
to have a fur fetish. While he may not have developed this longing
in childhood, like most fetishes, he may become so devoted to fur
that he becomes practically fetishistic about it himself, either
psychologically, or from a tactile point of view.
Fetishes, especially those that have been long repressed. have
a way of changing the overall psychosexual attitude of the
fetishist, once that person has found another person with whom
he can experiment. For-instance, there are many women who
have been suffering from sexual anesthesia, more commonly called
`frigidity.' although the studies of people like Masters and Johnson
have proved this term to be a misnomer. These women may have practiced
sex only in the conventional man-on-top position with little success
for her. However, if she has been repressing a fur fetish and decides
to let it out sharing her secrets with her mate, she may suddenly
become a very ardent lover. Once they have reached an understanding
with their mate. then. their inhibitions are turned loose and they
are able to enjoy sex to its maximum.
Most male fur fetishists like to see the object of their desire on
their mates, although some prefer to wear it themselves. Unlike many
fetishes, this does not usually present a problem. and many women
readily agree to go along with it. Like the woman fetishist of this
nature, the male often finds himself responding in a more profound
way once he has shared his partialism with his mate.
The ideal situation for the fur or leather fetishist is of course
to find a mate who shares his particular fetish. As long as the
person is not too shy in admitting his preferences. this is
not so big a problem as it might seem. Like others who suffer
from the more common fetishes— shoes, rubber. etc. —this is
not too difficult to accomplish, as many underground papers
and periodicals carry ads of this nature for those who are
unable to make such contacts on their own. Very often,
the fur fetishist may overlap in his preferences for
similar materials such as leather or silk. Krafft-Ebing
also points out that people with preferences for furs and
leathers are quite common among those who are masochistically
inclined — particularly men. The fetishist of this nature
may want his partner to treat him in a cold manner during
sexual encounters.
The abuse may he mental or physical. Contrary to popular belief,
such fetishists are not usually homosexuals, although to be sure
there are homosexuals with fetishes of this nature. However, It
is important to remember that the fetish is the important sexual
key to these individuals. Those who turn to homosexuality may have
done so mainly due to the fact that they were unable to find
heterosexual partners with whom to share their fetish.
The strongest correlation between another deviation and fetishism
is often cited as being that of masochism and the leather fetishist.
To the individual involved in sadomasochism, leather represents a
garment of strength and virility. The texture also arouses his
tactile sense—it is smooth, but at the same time tough and durable.
He may want to be dominated by what it represents, even if he wants
in no way to be punished in a physical manner.
In this way, the masochistic nature of the leather fetishist differs
from the popular concept of the true masochist. The leather fetishist
is sexually satisfied with abuse and humiliation from the person who
wears the leather, but his peculiarity usually stops short of receiving
actual pain. He may allow the leather wearer to subject him to more
than verbal abuse on some occasions, going so far as allowing the
person to force him to perform an oral act. or even have the person
urinate upon him, but he generally avoids the use of whips. In some
instances the dominant member will wield a leather whip, such as a
riding crop. but this only appeals to his leather worship and
acts as a threat.
It must be noted here that not all uses of leather are by true
fetishists. Recently, leather clothing has become in vogue
throughout this country, but this by no means implicates all
those who go along with the fashion of the day are fetishists.
Presently leather items of all sorts—boots, vests, skirts. etc
are very fashionable among many people who are not sexually addicted
to leather. To be sure, there are those who are able to mask their
fetishistic attraction for leather in the current vogue, but they
are in a minority. Some psychologists have seen this as a more
far-reaching phenomenon, citing that the popularity of leather
seems to have come from the so-called hippie culture, a group
that many re searchers feel are attempting on a collective
basis to become martyrs to many causes. This theory may have
some merits in a sociological aspect. but in so far as actual
sexual fetishism is concerned it is ridiculous to implicate
all those who may choose to wear leather clothing in public.
There are those who get more actively involved in the leather
fetish than merely worshipping it. Generally, these people are
masochistically inclined. Often, these individuals wish to he
bound up with leather thongs, dressed in special leather outfits
(which are available through a number of specialty houses), and
beaten by their sexual partner. Sometimes the whippings are
administered with heavy leather lashes such as bullwhips, whips
that could do severe damage if the fetishist were not protected
by his leather garments.
But among most leather fetishists, whose desires nave not graduated
to a decided need for physical punishment, the appearance of leather
on either themselves or their partners is generally sufficient to
produce an erotic response. Utilizing the various leather items
that are in great abundance today, not only through specialty shops,
but also openly for sale in many department stores due to the current
trend, the fetishist can engage in regular intercourse, fellatio or
cunnilingus while wearing these pieces of clothing.
The leather fetishist whose masochistic drive requires the use of a
whip is less sexually adequate. He needs pain applied to him, or a
semblance thereof, to achieve orgasm. This type of person offers
little or no sexual gratification in return, and he must often seek
out paid professionals to service his needs. There are many
professionals around the country who specialize in this type
of activity. The leather fetishist of this extreme nature may
also seek out homosexual contacts to gratify his needs.
There is yet another type of leather fetishist, the devout collector.
His object of desire is leather, but it is generally of a very
exclusive nature. He may be looking for a particular style of'
leather skirt, of a particular color and texture. More radically.
he may he looking for a leather bra of a certain size. Many of these
collectors are bondage enthusiasts and are able to obtain their
bizarre objects through houses that specialize in various leather
items. Some of these specialty houses manufacture equipment made
especially for the leather collector—hoods. masks, corsets, panties.
restraint clothing, and so on, all constructed of Leather.
These types of fetishists are often masturbators who are unable to
find partners with whom to share their fetishes. Sometimes, in
extreme cases, they are of an almost asexual nature, preferring
neither sex, precluding other humans in favor of his sexual love
object. His sex life may be completely onanistic, the fetishist
masturbating as he strokes his objects of worship.
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