Age Play Chronicle

by Little Girl Lost

***NOTE***
The activities listed below are between CONSENTING ADULTS.

The use of the word "child" implies an ADULT who is playing the role of a child.

Age Play Chronicle - Daddy/daughter

This is the part of my page where my Daddy adds his two cents to the opinions here!

Age play is, in my mind at the very least, an extremely complex act of sexuality. Even in it's "simplest" form, with fixed roles -- where one partner plays an adult figure, and the other plays a younger role -- the entire construct of play already takes on an increased scope of dimension.

Although, I am aware of many of the different possibilities of ages and roles that are a vast part of age play, for the moment I will explain it mostly through 'Daddy/daughter' roles, although you can get the gist to various other aspect of this play. The use of the word "role" is used quite frequently, but I am aware that for some, it is more than just a role.

Being a Daddy, the older figure, there is an importance of role, in most cases -- especially in the stereotyped Daddy role -- to be the dominating figure, or at least to appear as the dominating figure. I know for myself, I go through a lot of inner discussion, attempting to figure out whether or not I am being "Daddy" enough. The answer is, that only my partner can tell me, and only she can tell me after the scene has ended (although sometimes during the scene, if I am really off my "game"). No matter how much we talk before the scene unfolds, a "script" takes on an improvisational feel once everything gets rolling.

True, the basics are always covered. Safe words are in effect. Lines are drawn, and won't be crossed -- although they might be if my "daughter" hints, or eggs me on. My lines are drawn, and I won't cross them, unless I feel secure in myself that I can cross them, and know that my partner wants me to cross them if I can.

Being a Daddy, doesn't always mean you are the Topping figure in the scene. There are times when my daughter is Topping the scene. How does that happen? Well quite easily to be honest. Take a toy store scenario, for example. "Daddy? I want this," *sad puppy dog face* "pwease!" I would give in, as long as she wasn't making too much of a scene.

What happens here, depends entirely on what level of an age play scenario you are engaged in. In a light scenario, might mean that nothing happens, the scene ended after we left the store. In a moderate scenario, I might give her a spanking when we got home for being such a bad girl. In a heavy scenario, I might give my daughter a verbal scolding in the store, or perhaps even give her a swift spank.

How we 'choose' to play, depends not only on how comfortable we are with one another in these 'roles', but also how comfortable we are with ourselves, and how comfortable we are being these 'roles' beyond the safety of our 'bedroom'. In our case, we have many 'roles' we can be, my daughter's age varies with the mood of our play, and our individual moods. Staying in 'character' -- as they say -- is quite an intricate challenge. Although, an extremely pleasurable one. :)<

When I first took on the Daddy role, not so very long ago, I took on the responsibility of a level of my partner's trust that doesn't exist with any other 'role' -- except perhaps being her 'Mommy', but that is quite different than being her 'Daddy' in many respects. The Daddy/daughter connection is more than me just spoiling my 'child,' although that is a perk, but forming a bond with her that simply doesn't exist anywhere else. The connection between Daddy/Mommy and Kid for me is very intense. Especially if the 'children' are a rather young age. This is where much can go wrong, since trust and the safe feeling are always in a balance. Lines here, should not be crossed.

Being a sexual Daddy. It is not uncommon for people in these roles to become sexual with one another, and although there isn't a rule that says sexual play has to be included -- because these roles can have extremely satisfying non-sexual connotations too -- in many cases, as is my own, sex does become an aspect of it.

From what limited knowledge I have of age play in relationships, and from the limited people I have met, or heard stories of, it does seem that for sex-play to happen, the Daddy must be overly forceful in the affair, sometimes to the point of "raping" their daughter. Don't get me wrong, the idea of a "rape scene" with my little girl is quite fun, but if this would be the only way we could engage in sexual play, I could say that it would get somewhat boring if that was the only we could be sexual. I enjoy being a bit more creative in how sex can enter into our family.

I'll list a few examples for you, and give you something of a description of what I mean. I won't share all the ways, however, because there are some I still would like to surprise on my daughter some day.

1. Examination:
   My daughter could have a itchy spot, or a pain somewhere on her body, and being her father, I would have to examine the area to make certain it was nothing too serious. Good excuses to get me to examine her:

   • Strangely Wet Underwear, 'First Menstruation', maybe a bruise on the leg
     which I would have to take my daughter's pants off to see, etc.

   • Bathing:
     Giving my daughter a bath can be a messy affair. Since she tends to splash around some. So first act, would be to keep her calm in the water. Then there would be washing her. This is a big hands on affair, especially depending on how young she is for the scene. Sexual situations can arise from genital and ass cleaning. Kink situations could be in the style of abrasion (towel), scat (accident), pee, etc.

2. Spanking:
   She was a bad girl, or I just feel like punishing her on a made-up reason; either way, she's going to get a spanking. Have my daughter lean over my lap, ass up in the air, my hand pulling down her panties, then striking with strength, the soft flesh of my hand, striking the soft flesh of her ass, the warmth pulsating through her body with the echo of every hit. That is sexual in it of itself. The aftercare, of sensual touching, and probing is also a very special time.

3. Snuggling:
   laying down on the sofa, my little girl sitting between my legs, we're watching the television or I'm reading to her, or perhaps she is playing Pokémon on her Game Boy. And she'll feel my hardness press up against her back, and ask "Daddy, what's that? umm.. that thing that keeps touching my back?"

4. Potty:
   My little girl has just gone potty, and now I can hear her calling to me from the washroom, "Daddy! Daddy! I'm finished!" And so I rush into clean-up mode, grabbing the box of 'Baby Wipes.' She's standing there, her hands on the basin of the toilet, her ass pushed out to me, her legs spread wide for me to clean her bottom.

Those are only a few of the many ideas that a Daddy can do with his daughter in a sexual scene. There is always, more than sex. Being her Daddy and having her feel safe and having her trust me, are extremely important to who I am with her, and how we can play.

The Daddy/daughter connection. The most important aspect for me as a Daddy with my daughter, is that there is some form of bond that connects us, almost familial, like the "real" -- or more stereotyped -- Daddy/daughter bond. My daughter means the world to me, I am quite overprotective of her. I have an extreme distrust of men, all men. Generally my fears are associated with the thought that they are going to hurt her, and/or take her away from me. She's my girl. I want the best for her, and I want to be the best for her. There are aspects of life, that I know I won't always be the best for, and tend to be somewhat squeamish about, like her first menstruation. In this case, I might make-up what it is that's happening, or maybe I'll research it and teach her what is going on in her body -- perhaps I will even demonstrate/show her what is going on, this is also a good time to be sexual.

My relationship with my daughter, will have its ups and downs, and bumpy roads, and many wonderful joys associated with any relationship. Constant communication of each others necessities is very important. I need to tell my partner what I am expecting of her, she needs to tell me what she expects of me, and we negotiate and compromise on what we can as individuals actually obtain. We are constantly testing the waters of this relationship. Her age can fluctuate, as can her moods -- from princess to angel to brat. My mode can change -- from loving father to abusive father. The one absolute certainty, is that we are consensually and lovingly Daddy and daughter.

With love for my precious little girl,
Daddy

(See one of his pages at http://www.wynterwynds.zzn.com/ )