What Chastity Play is About

Chastity, more accurately in this case, enforced chastity is an interesting way to add spice to your sex life. Put in its simplest terms, chastity play is a way to prevent access to the genitals for the purpose of sexual pleasure. People being what they are, when control of when or if you can come is given to someone else, the arousal usually becomes extremely intense. What seems at first to be a form of perverted torture is actually a way to add considerable pleasure to your sex life.

It's true that using a chastity belt is also a way to prevent cheating, but most people nowadays use chastity toys to add pleasure and fun to their lives. It's true that most people have never even seen a chastity belt, much less considered using or wearing one, but if we are going to be completely honest with ourselves, we have had some pretty steamy fantasies about either controlling or being controlled sexually. Curious? Read on.

This isn't as kinky as it sounds

If your sex life to date has been restricted to intercourse and perhaps mutual masturbation, chastity play can sound like something pretty weird. It isn't. Nothing has to change about how you make love; what changes is when. The partner who wears the chastity belt has given the partner who has the "key" the ability to decide when sex can take place. Since most chastity devices effectively prevent masturbation, it means one partner gives the other control of all orgasms. This can be a great deal of fun for both people.

Chastity play allows you to take sex out of the bedroom in a subtle way that only the two of you will know. For example, if a woman has her male partner locked up, they can agree on "rules" he should follow, such as "he must always stand when she enters the room." If when they are out with friends he forgets, she can smile and hold some fingers up and he will know he stays locked up that many more days until he can get release.

If you don't think this is incredibly hot to both partners, just try it! You won't believe how exciting a dull relationship can become overnight. Take a few minutes and use your imagination. Fun, huh?