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The Old Guard Societies
by James Lastore
Many of us came to BDSM from the Internet; much of our current
lifestyle is based on information and concepts we learned online.
After all, you are reading this article on the Internet! Although
this is an extremely diverse online/real-time community, we are
all part of a tradition that dates backs two hundred years to
the Marquis de Sade. (Pretty impressive, huh?)
So, where did our contemporary BDSM ideas, concepts and
practices come from? Where? From the "old guard leather
societies." They were the major force in codifying,
refining and re-inventing our two hundred year tradition.
What exactly were these "old guard societies"? They
were a semi-secret, loosely affiliated group of mostly gay
male Tops and bottoms. They had a network of underground clubs
where they could practice what was then called S&M - sadism
and masochism - without interference from the outside vanilla
world. They had their own customs and rites - many versions of
which are now incorporated into our modern BDSM lifestyle.
Although the "old guard" was in its glory a scant
fifteen to forty years ago, much of their history is now shrouded
in myths and legends that are about as accurate as backstage
tales of the Grateful Dead. There were many leather societies
-- Leather Old Guard, D/s Old Guard, BDSM Old Guard, to name a
few -- in both the United States and Europe. Their customs varied
from group to group, from city to city and from country to country.
I am not an historian. To accurately trace the history of the old
guard would require a research staff and, besides, it would result
in a rather thick book, not an article. Thus, I will present a
short overview, generalizations and all, as a way of ending 2002
with an eye to the future while acknowledging the past. And we
can all make a New Years toast to these trail blazers of our
lifestyle - the "old guard leather societies." Cheers!
An essential part of the old guard was the custom of dressing
in leather - especially in black leather boots. No pleather
here! This "dress code" was incredibly important as
it gained you admittance to the then-secret world of S&M
clubs - such as the legendary Hellfire in New York City's
Greenwich Village. Try and dress vanilla and get into Hellfire?
It would be easier to make a camel go through the eye of a needle!
Thus leather was both a fetish and a ticket of admission to this
secretive world. Although dressing in leather is no longer a
requirement to be a part of the scene, the stylistic merging of
BDSM, the fetish world and leather remains.
Another old guard tradition was the hankie code. Colored flags
were used to identify Tops and bottoms. Although the specifics
of color varied (black generally meant "heavy" as in
"heavy Top or bottom"), a hankie worn in the left rear
pocket indicated a "Top"; one worn in the right rear
pocket designated a "bottom." This was a great concept.
Were this code still around, it would sure be easier to identify
Doms and subs at socials and play parties. It would prevent a lot
of "oops!" Although I have been to BDSM events where a
version of the hankie code was used (a whip worn on the left side
of the belt indicates Dominant, etc.), this tradition, sadly,
seems all but gone. One never knows; it just might make a comeback!
The old guard leather societies also laid down the code of
respect that a submissive accords a Dominant - such as addressing
the Dominant as "Sir," kneeling before the Master and
courtesy to other bottoms. A lot of our BDSM terminology -- Tops
and bottoms, Daddy's and boys, Masters and slaves, alphas and
betas and more -- came to us from the leather men.
The old guard ritual in which the slave was required to keep
the Master's leather gear polished - often shining the boots
in a formal "boot blacking" ceremony - is still
practiced by some D/s couples. The collaring ceremony was
codified by the leather men, as was the concept that the
actual collar was the Top's property. The use of slave contracts,
according to some, also originated in the leather societies.
The list of old guard traditions, which are practiced today
in some form, is quite extensive.
I have noticed nostalgia by some for the "good old
days" of the old guard -- especially for their
prerequisite that you must be very knowledgeable about
S&M, learn all the protocols and "apprentice"
before you can be admitted to the society. Those who take
this view have a point; there is, no doubt, an abundance
of instant one-day online Masters in our Internet-based
world. But it was easier to set standards in their small,
real-time, local community than in our huge, worldwide
Internet-based population.
On the other hand, many aspects of the modern BDSM world
are a great improvement over the old guard. Safe words
were virtually non-existent in the so-called "good
old days." The concept of SSC -- which is more
elucidating than the old guard maxim of "do no
harm" -- did not arrive until the late '80s. The
inclusiveness, the openness and the willingness to freely
exchange information that marks our BDSM way of life is a
big advance over the secretive world of the leather men.
They might have been paranoid for a reason; but they were
paranoid nevertheless.
I have saved mention of the most famous old guard precept
- that "you cannot become a Master or a Top without
having been a slave or a bottom" -- for last. This
celebrated rule is one that is still a subject of heated
debate at BDSM gatherings - and even in our Forums! When
looking to the future, we must always acknowledge the past.
The saying that "the reason we see so far is that we
stand on the shoulders of giants" was never truer
than with respect to the old guard leather societies.
They were truly giants.
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