Thirty Six Simple Rules For Managing the Submissive Male

from: Femina Rising

These rules were originally written in my household in 1992. They have seen several incarnations, but very few modifications. They really are classic!

These rules are for the submissive male slave who has just entered training with Mistress Infinity. They specifically pertain to part time or full time live in training and servitude. The new trainee will see that other slaves have more leeway in these rules. That is because they have had more training with Mistress Infinity and more seniority in service and servitude.

Over time, some of these rules will become relaxed except for periods of strict training. Each circumstance is unique so do not take anything you read here as if it were carved in stone. Final decisions in all training matters rest with Mistress Infinity.

1. RESPECT. The slave must always practice traditional courtesy which men have shown Womyn in polite society, whether in private or public. Stand when She enters the room. Sit (or kneel) as soon as She is seated.

2. Be totally attentive: open doors, wait at table so that She begins eating first, always ask permission to leave Her presence.

3. The slave should never speak unless spoken to, or unless anticipating the needs of his Mistress. The Mistress will let the slave know when this rule is relaxed. Over time and experience the slave will learn when it is ok to talk and when it is not.

4. The submissive will never sit with legs spread or slouch in a way typical of untrained males. Good posture and decorum is a sign of respect.

5. The slave will never stare at a Womyn without Her permission. Unless the Womyn seeks eye-contact, the submissive will keep his eyes lowered at all times.

6. When walking with his Mistress, or any Womyn, the submissive will keep his gait in step with hers, which usually means taking smaller steps. The slave should always be at least a step behind; but not too far, because he must open all doors.

7. Respect is shown by a submissive as long as he never fails to forget his lowly role in life. The submissive must always be pleasant, never argue and never pout.

8. THE slave's NAME. The slave should be given a new name by his Mistress to symbolize his submissive state. If the slave is a sissy, it should be a feminine name. Other names may be "made up" words that sound humiliating or which are amusing or pleasing to the Mistress; for example, names typical of pet dogs or cats.

9. THE slave's BODY. A slave surrenders control to his Mistress. He surrenders control of his body, how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps, the friends or acquaintances he is allowed to keep. In all aspects, the Mistress controls the slave.

10. Because a slave's purpose is to please his Mistress, more than anything else She owns, he must learn to control his response to sexual stimulation for the greater enjoyment of his Mistress. His orgasm is the only that the slave has left to control for himself. Failure to control his orgasm is disobedience. Disobedience requires punishment.

11. If the Mistress prefers simply to torment the submissive male and deny him release, then the submissive male must control himself to provide Her than pleasure. He must dedicate himself to abstinence and thank his Mistress humbly for removing the pleasure of ejaculation, thus allowing him to dedicate his lost pleasure to Her.

12. If the Mistress demands satisfaction through sexual intercourse, the submissive male must be able to control effectively his own orgasm so that it is timed to the pleasure of his Mistress. His purpose is not to please himself but to please Her. The Mistress's sexual needs are Her own business and she will select who will be allowed to fulfill them. (Note: Mistress Infinity does not require sexual intercourse with her male slaves.)

13. In all cases, the submissive male must remember that his orgasm does not belong to him -- his orgasm belongs to his Mistress. It is Hers to use, however she sees fit.

14. The submissive male should be as clean-shaven as the Mistress requires: from the top of his head to his toes, body hair should be present only if the Mistress allows it.

15. The submissive male may wear long hair, styled to imitate the superior styles of Womyn, only if the Mistress permits.

16. The submissive male may never touch his own genitals without the permission of his Mistress. When washing, he must use a washcloth or brush, never his hands.

17. The submissive male will allow himself to be pierced or tattooed as required by his Mistress, if safely and professionally done. These are considered rewards and only awarded to slaves in good standing. They are permanent marks of Ownership and as such will be ritualistically accomplished.

18. PERSONAL PROPERTY. The submissive male is the personal property of the Mistress. His possessions are Her possessions.

19. The submissive should always be saving to purchase "big ticket" items that his Mistress wants to buy. This means the submissive male is always on a strict allowance, kept by his Mistress.

20. CLOTHING. Feminization is training in submission. Wearing items of Feminine attire separates the submissive from and puts him outside of the world of the macho male. Wearing feminine attire doesn't make the male like a Womyn; this is impossible.

21. Standard attire is pink or white panties, an extra-absorbent pad (normally used by those suffering from incontinence), and panty hose worn under male clothing. Other uniforms will be expected as the slave progresses.

22. Whether a womyn knows what the submissive is wearing or not, feminization pushes the submissive closer to the company of womyn and away from the company of men. This is good for the submissive male, because it creates greater opportunities for him to be of help to Womyn, to serve them, and to model his behavior on their own superior behavior.

23. Feminine items can also be used as punishment -- corsets, girdles and foundations. These should be selected by the Mistress for maximum discomfort. Feminine items, such as old castoff clothing, can also be used for humiliation.

24. If the submissive male is a sissy or TV, very feminine clothing should be reserved for rewards; drudge clothing -- plain white panties, plain lingerie, housecoats, aprons, etc. -- should be required as normal attire. Punishment clothing is used when the slave has misbehaved.

25. The submissive male should never buy his own clothing without the guidance of his Mistress. He should buy what pleases her, not what he likes. This is an excellent Opportunity for the Mistress and slave to spend some quality shopping time together.

26. HEALTH & HYGIENE. The submissive will use only Feminine hygiene products: soaps, shampoos, lotions, deodorants, etc. and will be clean and properly groomed at all times. This may mean taking multiple baths/showers though out the day.

27. The submissive male will submit to enemas, or self-administered enemas, on demand by the Mistress. This condition is excused if health concerns are present. Enemas Are often used as punishment when a slave abuses his diet.

28. When urinating, the submissive male will always sit on the toilet; no exceptions. The Mistress does not appreciate the male custom of leaving the toilet seat up.

29. For good health, the submissive will enroll in a dance aerobics class. As an alternative, the submissive male will prepare his own dance aerobics routine and perform it for his Mistress for Her amusement. She may enjoy seeing him learn ballet and dress appropriately.

30. The submissive male must diet as required to maintain a correct weight for his height and should drink at least six 12-ounce glasses of water each day. Bathroom privileges are on permission only.

31. The submissive male must submit to eating only "submissive male food" selected by his Mistress whenever she requires it. A periodic "slave food day" will teach the slave his Proper place at the foot of the Mistress.

32. HOUSEHOLD SERVICE. When a meal is over the submissive male must be quick to clear the table and wash the dishes. The kitchen and dining room is then subject to a good cleaning.

33. The submissive male must always give his Mistress the first choice of everything -- She picks the section of the paper to read first, the channel on TV to watch, the restaurant to go to, the movie to see, the friends to entertain, etc.

34. The submissive must always keep his own quarters spotless, as directed by the Mistress. All furnishings and interior decoration will follow Her taste. While on "floor" status, the slave is to roll his bedding and put it away as early in the day as possible.

35. The submissive male will perform all household chores for the Mistress, in cooperation with any submissive females in residence, to include:

    1. sweep and vacuum all floors and carpets
    2. mop and was all floors
    3. dust and polish all furniture
    4. make the beds every day
    5. wash and fold all clothing and linens
    6. iron
    7. hand wash all lingerie
    8. scrub bathrooms
    9. clean kitchen
    10. cook simple meals; assist in all cooking
    11. wash dishes and put them away
    12. set the table
    13. shop for groceries and put them away
    14. take out trash and sort recycled items
    15. run all errands as directed
    16. perform yard work; plant flowers as directed
    17. get along with, and follow directions of female slave

36. KNOWING his PROPER PLACE. The slave will never sit on the furniture, but will take his customary place on the floor so that he is physically lower than the Mistress. Likewise, he will sleep on the floor.